Not too long ago, a regional woman blogged in getting tips and advice about her sexless marriage.
SN&R columnist’s guidance on a local woman’s sexless union brings out a firestorm of feedback
Her letter—and our response to it month that is last SN&R—set off a firestorm of e-mails, calls and encounters by audience. Therefore we’re going to go over and revisit the sexless-marriage theme again here.
The woman described herself as having a high sexual drive in her letter. But her hubby got virtually no fascination with receiving their trick into the ignition. In their courtship that is premarital ended up being infrequent rather than enjoyable, she said, but she married him because of the several other pleasures to be with him. The pattern of infrequent and unsatisfying sex continued during the first few years of marriage. As soon as the birth of their son, sex between this woman along with her husband ended totally.
Currently experts agree that the landing of children could be the # 1 reason why sex dwindles in marriages (stress and all-consuming jobs are other culprits). Mothers, understandably, believe physically reduced by the unrelenting real requirements of children and children that are young. Whenever a woman’s body is no more her very own, this woman is rapid to rebuff her partner’s attempts at attraction. (more…)